Buying a Home as Newlyweds: What Couples Should Know

A wedding often kicks off a wave of other big decisions, and buying a home is near the top of the list for many couples. It is an exciting step, and it goes much more smoothly when both of you start from the same page.

Have the Money Talk Early

Before you tour homes, sit down together and get honest about your finances. It does not need to be awkward. Think of it as planning your future together.

• Income and debts: List what each of you earns and owes, including student loans, car payments and credit cards.
• Credit: Check both credit reports. When you apply together, lenders look at both of your credit profiles, so it helps to know where each of you stands.
• Savings: Decide how much you can put toward a down payment and closing costs while keeping an emergency fund. Down payments can range from a few percent to 20% or more depending on the loan, and closing costs are a separate expense to plan for.
• Comfort level: Agree on a monthly payment that feels manageable, not just what you can qualify for.

Our mortgage calculator is a handy tool for testing different price ranges together.

One Name or Two on the Loan?

Applying jointly lets the lender count both incomes, which may help you qualify for more. But if one partner has much lower credit or significant debt, applying with just one borrower can sometimes make sense. A loan officer can compare both scenarios and explain the tradeoffs.

Explore Your Loan Options

Couples have the same range of options as any other buyer, including conventional, FHA, VA and USDA loans. If one of you is a veteran or active-duty service member, a VA loan could be worth a close look. Getting pre-approved together gives you a clear budget and shows sellers you are ready.

Timing Around Big Life Events

Weddings, honeymoons and new jobs can all affect your finances. A few tips to keep your mortgage on track:

1. Avoid financing big wedding expenses on new credit right before you apply.
2. If you are changing your name, let your loan officer know so your documents match.
3. Keep gift money, including wedding gifts you plan to use for a down payment, well documented.
4. Try not to change jobs during the loan process unless you talk with your lender first.

Summer tends to be a busy time in many housing markets, so give yourselves extra time if you plan to buy then. There is no perfect season, though. The best time is when your finances and your plans line up.

Starting your life together in a home of your own is a wonderful milestone. A FLO Mortgage loan officer would be glad to help you plan it. Meet our team and let us talk it through together.

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